It’s that time of year when we are inundated with songs about “the most wonderful time of t he year”; songs that seem to suggest we are all supposed to feel ‘holly and jolly’. They play in the stores and on the radio for weeks. This time of year typically starts before Thanksgiving and goes until the start of the new year. That is about 6 weeks (or more) of being bombarded with messages and symbols of happiness and joy; 6 weeks of misery for those who are heartbroken. The wi